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April 28, 2019
Learn to be Alone if You Want to do Something Different in Your Life
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Once my friend said to his other friends, "Bro! I’ve exam so you have to go with me in other city”. Some of them said I don’t have too much time so I can’t come with you. He tried to convince them but they denied to go with him. Then he asked to me to go with him in his exam city, I also don’t want to go out with him and I had not too much time for that. Then the result was, that guy left his exam.
Now tell me how these types of peoples can perform well in their life, they don’t have guts to do a single task alone. They need one person to go with them. I think they are not self-depending persons, they always depend on others and will give excuse of their failure to that person.
If there is any loss to live alone then definitely there’re also many benefits to live alone. When you will live alone then many peoples will say different things such as – you are changed, what happened with you, there’s ego in you, you are jealous etc. But you should ignore them all because they are temporary peoples and their talks will not affect you anymore.
I’m not saying that don’t talk with anyone but I’m saying talk the people only who understand your value. Don’t talk them persons who always use you or cheat you always. That type of peoples will be the reason of your loss.
I live alone and love to be alone because no one will hurt you, no one will disturb you, no one can use you and you will not have any expectations from other people. But be self-dependent first because in the future if you want help of any friend then you have to make some argument there. He/she may be do your work or can do your work. You should have a perfect decision making, problem solving, self-motivation, self-control strategies to perform well after being alone.
I learn many things from peoples. How they treat you in different time, their reaction will be different when they want your help and also will be the different reaction when you want their help, you have to think here deeply on this topic and observe the condition.
I’m not saying that to living alone is a good habit but I’m trying to say that by living alone you can save yourself from the persons who use peoples when they want.
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